Sunday, September 26, 2010

The Next Level

Today’s study is twofold.  First we will be looking at 2 Peter chapter 1 which gives us instructions on how to become productive and effective concerning our relationship with Christ.  These things will help us to examine ourselves and to move closer to the lovers relationship we long for.  Second, we will approach today’s lesson as if it were a personal study.  There are millions of ways available to study God’s Word and “get something” from it.  I hope that through this group we explore many of them so that you can find the one that works for you.  The same method doesn’t work for every person or every situation, so don’t feel locked into just one or two and don’t feel like if one doesn’t work none of them will.  

Turn to 2 Peter chapter 1 beginning in verse 3
“His divine power has granted to us ALL things that pertain to life and godliness”  What does this mean to you?  Jot it on you paper.  God doesn’t give us just a little, or only enough.  Through His power he has given us EVERYTHING that has to do with this life, that has to do with being like Him.  He grants it to us; He give us permission; He gives what is requested.  It is ours if we request and accept it!

“Through our knowledge of Him who called us by his own glory and goodness”  Thoughts? Jot them down.  WE can’t accept what we don’t know.  Do you take presents from strangers?  Not usually and if you do you tend to be leery of them.  You can’t really understand or truly reap the benefits of all that He has given you if you don’t first take the time to know Him and trust Him and know what He is really offering to you.  Not because of who you are, or what you can give Him in return but because of His love for you, His glory and His goodness He calls you to these things.

“Through these (knowledge of Him, His glory and goodness) he has given us his very great and precious promises,”  Thoughts?  This is the why and how.  Notice He gives us promises.  They aren’t maybes or possiblies or if I feel like it, or any other wishy washy things.  He has made us a promise and when God makes a promise you know He will keep it because He can not lie to us.

“So that through them you may participate in the divine nature and escape the corruption in the world caused by evil desires.”  Thoughts?  We get to be a part of his divine nature, to participate!  Not just stand on the sidelines and watch.  I used to hear about going to heaven and spending an eternity worshipping God.  Didn’t really sound appealing to me then because I didn’t get it.  He offers us so much more.  He offers for us to join Him, to be a part of who He is and what He is doing.  I think that is why everyone is worshipping Him in heaven, they are so happy to be a part of the wonderful thing He is doing, they get to be a part of Him!  To be honest I don’t really feel worthy to be a part of who He is.  He knows that though and tells us that we can escape that corruption.  The more we participate in His divine nature, the less the corruption of evil desires has a hold on us.  The less trapped we are.

“For this reason,” because we accept the promise of God, because He provides for us, because we can participate in His nature we should…..

“make effort to add to your faith goodness” KJV says virtue  thoughts?  We first have to have faith.  Hebrews 11:1 tells us that faith is the substance of things hoped for and the evidence of things not seen.  It is more than just agreeing that God is real.  Even the demons believe that and I wouldn’t say they have faith.  Faith is knowing God, agreeing that what He tells us about who He is and what His plans are is true, and finally it is trusting Him.   Faith is listed first because if you don’t have complete trust in Him and don’t rely on Him and His promises to us then the rest doesn’t really matter.  To this we add goodness or virtue.  Goodness is defined as the state of being good (valid, genuine REAL) according to Webster.  Goodness is being REAL, not hiding our hurts, our mess ups, our faults or shortcomings.  When we are real about our walk with God we demonstrate virtue because we are attempting to live a life of moral excellence.  We try very hard to do what is right and are still humble enough to admit when we make a mistake and ask for forgiveness, both from God and from those we have wronged. 

then to goodness, knowledge”  What is knowledge to you? 2 col 2:3 tells us that knowledge is in Christ, that it is hidden there.  First we have to trust God, then we have to strive to have moral excellence and to be real, then we continually seek and add knowledge.  You can’t stop learning about Him.  Remember the big difference between the master/servant stage and the friendship stage is knowledge, knowing His business. 

“then add to knowledge self-control” What do you think this means?  Control of our emotions, desires and actions.  We live in a corrupt world caused by evil desires.  We have to get ourselves straightened out first, control our own desires before we even think of looking to others.  Matt 7:3-5 tells us to examine ourselves first and fix it before we begin to even look on others.  This is a full time life-long process.  As you begin to gain self-control in one area God will, through your search for knowledge, bring to light another area you need to control, then another and another and another.  Not an easy task to undertake.

“and to self-control perseverance”  or patience   I found it interesting that perseverance fell after self-control.  God knows that self-control is a difficult one so He has Peter tells us to continue in spite of the difficulty, to be steadfast in our purpose.  In our struggle for self-control we will be faced with things about ourselves that we don’t want to see.  We will have to act in ways that may at first be counter to how we want to, we may have to shut up when we want to scream and speak out when we want to shut up.  Satan doesn’t want us to maintain self control any more than it wants us to seek knowledge, to be virtuous, or to have faith.  He wants us to act just like the world, because when we don’t, when we hold on to these things, it becomes a light shining in the darkness.  When the people in the world see this light though, it can be scary for them because they don’t understand it.  Scary causes people to strike out.  We have to persevere and keep on trekking and patience to stick it out.

“and to perseverance, godliness”   Wow! The quality or state of being god, devoted to God.  We begin to truly be a part of Him.  We give ourselves up to Him (devotion).  Think less of me and more of Him. 
After these things THEN we begin to focus on others through brotherly kindness and then through love.

“For if you possess these qualities in increasing measure, they will keep you from being ineffective and unproductive in your knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ.”  Increasing measure – it’s a process.  He knows we won’t get it all right all at once.  He doesn’t expect that, but if you aren’t trying you aren’t reaching out to Him and you will be ineffective and unproductive.  John 15:2 tells us that if you aren’t bearing fruit you may be pruned.  If you aren’t striving to be effective and productive for Christ then are you really devoting yourself to Him? 

But if anyone does not have them, he is nearsighted and blind, and has forgotten that he has been cleansed from his past sins.” Peter ought to know about this and personally I think this statement has more impact because of who is giving it.  Jesus personally prayed for Peter’s faith to not fail, (Luke 22:32) but knowing it would He also told Peter that when he turned back to strengthen his brothers.  The man who was one of Jesus inner circle (he was one of the chosen 3 to stay up and pray with Jesus at Gethsemane indicating that He was very close to Jesus) and yet denied even knowing Jesus when things went bad.  Peter knows what it is to forget what has been done for him, to be near-sighted and blind.  He has been there and I dare say he doesn’t want us to experience that.

Therefore, my brothers, be all the more eager to make your calling and election sure. For if you do these things, you will never fall,”  IF  that is the key here.  If you do these things then you will NEVER fail.  If you are maintaining faith, striving to be real and virtuous, to maintain self-control, persevering, moving toward godliness then your life will begin to fall more and more into God’s will.  Your thoughts and desires will become His and we know that He can’t fail.  It is when WE move away from these things and back towards letting our desires take control and moving back towards the corruption of the world that we begin to see failure in our lives, we begin to stumble.  We can’t just do what we want to and expect God to bless our mess.

and you will receive a rich welcome into the eternal kingdom of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.”  NKJV says  our entrance into the kingdom will be supplied abundantly.  Not that we should be doing these things for an abundant or elaborate welcome because if we are doing it for others to see how good we are and how much we will be rewarded God tells us we will have received our reward here rather than in heaven  (Matt 6:1)  However, if we are truly striving to live a life that pleases God JUST to please God he promises to show us his pleasure when we arrive.

Homework -  continue to set aside time with God daily, schedule Him and make Him a priority.  Ask Him to reveal an area in your life in which you either lack self-control, or in which you need clarification as to what He considers to be good or virtuous.  Then spend time learning what He has to say about the area.  Write it down!  We will ask for people to share at the next meeting, but you will not be forced to. 


*This method of study is called “phrase by phrase”.  Every word and phrase within the Bible is intentional in is placement and wording.  Taking a passage phrase by phrase focuses us on its meaning, allows us to make it personal and forces us to slow down and examine it.  Writing it down helps us to focus and it allows us to keep a recording of it.  God doesn’t always use the same words to mean the same thing to us all the time.  As a matter of fact when I sat down and journaled these passages the first time there were some thoughts that I had that were “ah-ha” moments for me then but when I sat down later to type them for this meeting there were several points that were brought to me in a new way.  Not that the words changed or the meaning changed but the understanding changed based upon circumstances.  You will find that happens often.


Sunday, September 12, 2010

WINGS-The Journey

Our relationship with God is a journey.  Where are you at currently on this journey?   Please pick which analogy best describes the relationship between you and God right now.  

Potter/Clay      Shepherd/Sheep      Master/Servant      Father/Child      Friends       Lovers

Potter/Clay
            Isaiah 64:8 the first part of our journey is recognition that we are the works of God’s hands.  Most people in this part of the journey are awed by God’s ability.  We don’t ask Him what He is doing (Isaiah 45:9 and Isaiah 29:16) rather we marvel at what He has done.  We begin to look at things differently, recognizing His amazing work.  At this point in our relationship we typically don’t ask where we are going, or what He has planned, we are just thankful to be on the walk with Him, getting to know Him.  This is where we recognize that we aren’t the person in charge.

Shepherd/Sheep
            Isaiah 40:11 tells us that the Lord tends us like a shepherd.  This is the period of comfort and healing.  God carries us, the young lambs that are still learning how things work, what we are to do, what our role in the flock is, close to His heart.  He is protecting, comforting, and sheltering us.  This verse also tells us that he leads us GENTLY.  He isn’t forcing us one way or another, not pushing and pulling and dragging us.  At this stage He has shown us enough of who He is that we should want to follow where He is leading.
Ezekiel 34:12 He begins during this stage of our journey to heal the hurts the world has inflicted on us and we begin to learn to trust Him, to follow Him.   He tells us that He will rescue us from the darkness, from all the places that we were.  I don’t know about you but I have been in some pretty dark places in my life.  My heart was full of darkness.  Feelings of isolation, aloneness, unworthiness etc.  God rescues us from these scattered places and gathers us to him.
Mark 6:34 tells us that He has compassion on us because we had no shepherd.  (Matt 9:36 calls us harassed and helpless) and he began to teach…  We begin to learn who He is, how He sees us, what to do, etc. 
John 10:14 He KNOWS us, inside and out, our thoughts, fears, hopes, desires etc.  Now we finally start to know Him too!

Master/Servant
            Matthew 10:24-25a we begin in this stage of our journey to try to emulate God, to please Him
            John 15:15 tells us that we don’t know our master’s business, we still aren’t able to see the big picture but we see enough to know we want to be like Him. 
To get here we had to put in the time to get to know him, through prayer, study of His word, fellowship with other Christians.  Prayer is an important part of this process.  So important that we are told to pray morning, noon and night (Psalm 55:17).  Prayer allows us to talk with God, to draw closer to Him.

Father/Child
            Matthew 6:8 We begin to get more intimate with God, He, like earthly fathers, knows what we NEED.  This stage is more private and personal than previous stages.  He asks us to fast in secret for Him (Matthew 6:58) to pray in privacy just for Him (Matthew 6:6) to give secretly for Him (Matthew 6:3) 
            Ephesians 5:1 we are still imitators of Him, but our hearts have changed and we now imitate out of love for him as a child imitates her father. 
He wants to take care of us (Matt 7:11, Luke 12:32, John 16:23) defend us (Psalm 72:4).  We are precious to Him (matt 6:26) and He doesn’t judge us! (John 5:22)  Sounds like a proud Papa to me! 
We still look up to Him, respect Him, but our relationship has grown more intimate.  We run to God to protect us, heal our hurts, tells us that we are okay and still loved now.  I think about the relationship my kids have with Scott, how Hayli knows that daddy can do anything better than anyone else.  Ayden gets so excited when he comes home all she can do is shout for joy.  Jason goes to him when he needs something fixed or doesn’t understand how something works.  They know he loves them and will try to make time for them and try not to let them down.  Our relationship with God is so much better in that God can do everything better, can fix everything, won’t let us down and always has time for us!  He wants us to be close and personal.

Friends
            Proverbs 18:24b there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother
            John 15:14-15 You are my friends if you do what I command. I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master's business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you.”  Jesus is speaking to his disciples here, and to us.   He tells us how to become His friend, obey his command.  Before this point we didn’t really understand what God’s “business” was.  However, by this stage of our journey we do understand.  We have learned through prayer and study.  At this point we are called friends, favored companions, attached to each other by affection.  This is truly a term of endearment.  The only other time the Bible refers to a person as a friend of God is in reference to Abraham. (James 2:23). 
            As you should well know, friendship doesn’t happen overnight.  It requires time to build, to grow, to become firmly rooted.  But our relationship journey doesn’t end here!  He wants even more than this.

Lovers
            Isaiah 62:5 God rejoices over us as a husband rejoices over his wife.  His heart throbs and swells with joy when we come to Him (Isaiah 60:4-5) He shows himself to you even when you didn’t want Him, when you scorned him He pursued you crying out “Here I am, Here I am” (Isaiah 65:1) Sounds like lovesickness to me!
            You see, you are special.  God WANTS your love.  Think about it.  The greatest command is to love Him with all your heart, all your soul and all you mind, everything in you.  He wants all of you just as a lover would.  But it isn’t one sided.  He has pursued you, He rejoices over you.  He is full of joy because YOU have come to Him.  Take a moment to really process that.  The God of the universe is in love with YOU!  You are truly special to him; no one else on earth can take your place in his heart.  He longs for you to feel the same way about Him.  He already knows you inside and out.  He wants you to want to know Him inside and out also.  This is what we were created for! 
            But to get to this stage of the journey you have to really know Him, to respect Him, to have spent time with Him.  Real love doesn’t come without these things, and neither will a real loving relationship with God.

Think about it.  If you never called your best friend would you still be best friends?  If you only spoke to your husband when you needed something would you have a good relationship?  How about if you only complained at him?  Didn’t bother to learn what makes him happy? Sad? If you repeatedly took advantage of him?  If you never said you were sorry?  Didn’t bother to learn about their life before you stepped into it?  Would he feel loved?  How can we expect a real, close relationship if we don’t invest our own hearts?

We are ALL in need of that feeling of being loved, wanted.  We all want a place to feel safe and protected.  It is our prayer that our meetings help us to move towards a relationship of total love and devotion to the all sufficient God.